You are at an inflection point
An endless loop of options plays in your head. You have the same conversation with your nearest and dearest, over and over (and over, and over).
You lay awake at night trying to force yourself to move forward already. You have made so many pro and con lists that you’ve lost count. You're feeling stuck in the struggle, like you're just spinning your wheels. You know you’re a capable and intelligent human, so, why can’t you make up your mind?!
For four years, I let my fears, concerns, habitual thoughts, and perceived outside judgments stand in the way of my own life. When I started studying the what-ifs, I was finally able to see them for what they were - weights around my neck - and I made the choice to set my self free.